Last night, I took a quiz at Facebook – “Why are you still single?”. I got the same answer as my riends told me – “I’m too picky”. But, I have my own attitude, I will find someone who really love me and I hope that I could love her too. Its been 3 years now, I live as a single person. Wanna know how am I face this life as a single person?

1. Say yes to every opportunity to learn, grow and meet new people.
2. Be grateful for what I have. After the grieving period, focus on what I have for example, good health and a good support system of family and friends.
3. Don’t be afraid to invest myself in deep relationships with other people. I don’t need to be dating somebody to have a intimate and fulfilling relationship with them. Don’t be afraid to open up and be vulnerable sometimes.
4. Decide that there are aspects of my life or my personality that I would like to change and do it. I don’t need to listen to those people who tell me that I am single because I am too “picky”, too fat,or too old to meet someone else.
5. Ignore the toxic people in my life. It is easy to recognize them. Their negative words of fear and discouragement sap your energy.
6. Think about all the things I can do because I am now single. I could take off and go travelling without discussing it with somebody else. I can watch TV all day without being called lazy.

I can learn new things from anyone I could possibly meet, but be careful; choose people who teach you in a positive way rather than a negative one. Some lessons are better learned through observation, rather than experience. I am vulnerable but not stupid. Be wary of persons who need to borrow my money.

There’s a lot to love about being single. You can save money and do what ever you want. Flirting, lepak with friends all night long and weekinds, e.t.c.

But it’s not all knocking boots and freedom. There are some aspects of single life that might, in fact, be seen as less than desirable. I felt lil’ jealous with friends who have someone to talk to, to love, someone who care about them and not to forget to talk about heart-to-heart story.

Don’t think that being single is the best way, if you are on a relationship, please make sure that your relationship will last forever. I acknowledge that I regret for broke up with my partner last time. At that time, I thought that I could find someone better but the fact is it not easy to find someone to love. Its not like choosing the right dress, but love is about to find the right heart.

Arghhhh!!! Obsessed with “Nur Kasih” drama makes me jiwang. Haha… Oh ya, I am constructing the new look, name and address for this blog. Wait and see!

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